It can be very uncomfortable to watch the mistreatment of a child by an adult out of control. Fortunately, there are things you can do to help...
| -Start a conversation with the adult to direct attention away from the child. For example: "She seems to be trying your patience." "My child has gotten upset like that too." "He has beautiful (eyes)" - to get the parent in a positive mood. "Children can wear you out, can't they? Is there anything I can do to help?" |
| Divert the child's attention (if misbehaving) by talking to the child. |
| -Look for an opportunity to praise the parent or child. |
| -If the child is in danger, offer assistance. For example, if the child is left unattended in a grocery cart, stand by the child until the parent returns. |
| -Avoid negative remarks or looks. These reactions are likely to increase the parent's anger and could make matters worse. |
